Robert Withrow
24 Nov
24Nov

AI tools are everywhere, but relying on them for legal guidance can be risky, especially in family law cases. AI often provides inaccurate or misleading legal information, a problem so widespread that OpenAI now prevents ChatGPT from giving legal advice. Even Kim Kardashian recently admitted that using AI while studying for the bar exam caused her to “fail tests … all the time.

For individuals representing themselves in divorce, custody, or support matters, relying on AI can lead to costly mistakes. At Mulhall Withrow, we see the consequences regularly. AI can help you understand basic concepts, but it cannot replace professional guidance from an experienced family law attorney.


1. AI Can’t Understand the Human Side of Family Law

Family law is personal and highly nuanced. Judges consider human factors such as credibility, the emotional and behavioral dynamics within families, and the specific needs of children.

AI cannot interpret tone, read body language, or understand the history of relationships. It also cannot evaluate the emotional complexities that influence a judge’s decisions. While AI can provide general information, it cannot account for the real-world circumstances that shape each unique case.


2. Family Law Is Complex — AI Often Gets It Wrong

AI tools frequently provide answers that are confident, but inaccurate. Common pitfalls for self-represented litigants include:

  • Misinterpreting statutes 
  • Misunderstanding custody standards 
  • Incorrectly calculating child support or alimony
  • Relying on outdated or irrelevant case law

Massachusetts family law develops through specific statutes and detailed appellate decisions. AI tools cannot guarantee that the information they provide aligns with the most current legal standards in the Commonwealth.


3. Courtroom Mistakes Are Hard to Fix

One of the most serious risks of using AI for self-representation is making mistakes in front of the judge. Once a litigant presents incorrect legal arguments or files improper documents, those errors become part of the court record. Judges form impressions based on how well a party understands the law and court procedures, and avoidable mistakes can be difficult to overcome.

In some cases, filing unnecessary or incorrect pleadings can trigger a “gatekeeper” order, requiring court approval before submitting any new documents. Correcting these errors later by hiring an attorney is often more expensive than retaining counsel from the start. Attorneys must work within the existing record, which can make the case more time-consuming and complex to resolve.


4. AI Cannot Advocate for You in Court

Effective legal advocacy requires experience, judgment, and the ability to think on your feet. A skilled family law attorney can:

  • Negotiate with opposing counsel to reach fair agreements on issues like custody, visitation, and support.
  • Adjust strategy in real time based on the judge’s questions or unexpected developments during hearings.
  • Respond to complex or unforeseen situations that arise in court, such as procedural objections, evidentiary disputes, or changes in the opposing party’s arguments.

AI cannot perform these tasks. While it can provide general legal information, it cannot adapt to the dynamic nature of courtroom proceedings, advocate for your interests, or anticipate how a judge might respond. Only an experienced family law attorney can provide the strategic guidance and courtroom protection necessary to navigate these high-stakes situations successfully.


The Bottom Line

AI can be a helpful educational tool, but it cannot replace professional legal guidance. When your family, finances, and future are at stake, relying on AI carries significant risk.

If you’re navigating a divorce, custody dispute, or support issue, the team at Mulhall Withrow is here to provide experienced, strategic guidance every step of the way. Call us today at (781)-381-5287 to schedule a consultation and protect what matters most.